Assertiveness is a crucial interpersonal skill that involves expressing your thoughts, feelings, needs, and opinions in a respectful and direct manner, while also respecting the rights and boundaries of others. It's finding a balance between being passive (not expressing yourself) and aggressive (expressing yourself at the expense of others). …
“Dry Drunk” Behaviors
Addiction of any type is a serious problem. However, effective treatment requires more than “just stopping” the use of drugs or alcohol. The reality is that when someone “just stops” their addiction, many of the behaviors that “got them into trouble” are “still active.” This "dry drunk" lifestyle is still addictive, even though they may have stopped drinking or using drugs. …
The Danger of Enmeshed Families
Therapists have long been concerned with helping families develop healthy ways of caring and relating to one another. After all, it's important that we care for others and are connected to them for healthy growth. However, there are certain types of "caring" that can interfere with healthy growth patterns for all members of the family. …
To Take Control of your Life, Start by Being Brutally Honest with Yourself
If you're feeling like your life is spinning out of control, it's time to take charge. But not in the way you think. In fact, before you actually make any changes, you need to begin with being brutally honest with yourself. I don't mean paying attention to all of the lies you tell yourself about your self-worth or your limitations. Instead, you have to know what you're feeling, …
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I Don’t Want to Be Here: Talking Only Makes it Worse!
Everyone always hears that advice that talking about problems can help. However, most people really believe that it might be best to say as little as possible about most things. As a result, coming to see a psychologist to “talk about issues” is something that many people resist doing until they absolutely have to. Understanding a few issues can help with this important task. …
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