Video transcript Well, what do you do if you're the one in the relationship and your partner doesn't want to go to therapy? This is not a showstopper. You need to sit down and talk with somebody, so that you can not only figure out what is going on with you, but what changes you need to make, because without that, nothing's gonna change. You can't change your partner without changing who you are. That's it, and I'm gonna help you figure out what do you have to do, what do you need to be accountable for, and what do you basically need to call as far as a spade being a spade? Because sometimes it requires honesty, but it also requires empathy, and that's the difference in helping you make a change from struggling with this on your own to figuring out whether or not you're going to champion this relationship to the next level. If I can help, I'd love to talk further with you.