Welcome! As a Certified Gottman Therapist based in Eugene, Oregon, I specialize in helping individuals and couples move beyond traditional talk therapy to make a lasting impact in their lives.

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Let’s be honest: You don’t really want a therapist who will just sit there and ask, “…and how does that make you feel?” You want someone who will finally help you move beyond the basics in order to finally become the best version of yourself. Someone who will guide, challenge and show you the skills you need to propel yourself forward.
Growing up in Eugene, I come from a multi-generational family of psychologists and therapists, and have “breathed the air” of psychology, so to speak. You can read more about my background if you’re curious to learn more.
Services
As a therapist in private practice in Eugene, Oregon, I specialize in providing:
Enhancing Your Connection: The Next Chapter
Strong relationships thrive on connection and understanding. Whether you’ve built years of shared experiences or are navigating important life transitions together, there’s always room to deepen your bond. You’ve created something meaningful together. Now you might be looking to add new dimensions to your relationship, keep your spark alive, or strengthen the emotional intimacy you…
Making an Informed Decision About Your Relationship’s Future
Get Evidence-Based Clarity Through Specialized Discernment Counseling It’s 3 AM. Another sleepless night. You’re lying next to someone who used to be your best friend, but now feels like a stranger. The most unsettling part? This pattern will continue until you make an informed decision about your future. Hi, I’m Dave Lechnyr, LCSW. As a…
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When ADHD Impacts Your Relationship: Understanding, Accepting, and Growing Together
Every relationship has its unique dynamics, but when undiagnosed ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is part of the equation, both partners may experience challenges and gifts they never expected. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Gottman Therapist, I’ve worked with many couples navigating this journey together. While undiagnosed ADHD can contribute to relationship stress, it…
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Toxic Relationship Recovery: Fear, Obligation, Guilt and Gaslighting
It can be overwhelming, exhausting, and disheartening to see the one you love keep your relationship at arms’ length through their words and actions. This type of Toxic Relationship is hard to see clearly when you’re in it. While your partner may agree that there’s a problem, their insight never seems to last. No matter…
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Dave Lechnyr: Certified Gottman Therapist in Eugene, Oregon
Welcome to my practice! I’m Dave Lechnyr, a Certified Gottman Therapist with extensive training in helping people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected in their relationships. As a licensed mental health therapist, my deepest desire is to help you feel understood, valued and connected again – whether with your partner or in your relationship with…
More About Dave Dave Lechnyr: Certified Gottman Therapist in Eugene, Oregon
I feel very strongly that we can let what happens in our lives make us angry, resentful and afraid, or we can embrace these events as a way to grow stronger, yet softer, and end up being more open to what scares us. This process of personal recovery is amazing to witness and I am always impressed by the motivation of my clients towards change.
You’re Ready to get Started if…
- You’re open to exploring new strategies and solutions
- You’re willing to face challenges for the sake of personal growth
- You’re committed to taking active steps towards change
I Might Not Be the Best Fit if…
- You’re looking for quick fixes without personal effort
- You’re not ready to take responsibility for your own growth
- You prefer a completely passive approach to therapy
Ready to start your journey? Let’s team up and work together to help you create the life and relationships you deserve. Book a session today, and let’s get started on your path to a better life.