Adult Children have the inability to have fun and relax. It is difficult to sit still and relax. There is a need to do something and keep busy constantly. No one played with them or taught them how to play or even what the rules for playing are. They are afraid to take time off to play; they have to be always always pushing forward. They have to put all their efforts into keeping up and pushing ahead. Life is difficult and stressful because it is hard to just sit back and relax and say, “it’s O.K. to just be me.”
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