You can't control what other people do. You can wish they were different, but that’s not going to change them. Mel Robbins' "Let Them" philosophy encourages a mindset shift that involves accepting others as they are and releasing control over things you can't change. Instead of getting caught up in trying to influence or manage others' behaviors or choices, the idea is to let …
Depression and Self-Image: The Struggle of Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families
Adult children of dysfunctional families often grapple with depression and negative self-image rooted in the complex and often painful experiences of their childhood. These individuals may find themselves constantly seeking approval and affirmation, struggling with codependency, and feeling a deep sense of sadness and anger. Understanding the impact of growing up in a …
High Standards of Performance: The Struggle of Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families
Adult children of dysfunctional families often struggle with unrealistically high standards and a relentless drive for perfection in all aspects of their lives. This tendency to judge themselves harshly and push themselves to the limit can lead to chronic stress, burnout, and a deep sense of inadequacy. Understanding the roots of this challenge and learning strategies for …
Feeling Different from Others: A Common Struggle for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families
Adult children of dysfunctional families often grapple with a pervasive sense of feeling different from others, like they don't quite fit in or belong. This struggle can lead to social anxiety, difficulty forming connections, and a deep-seated belief that they are somehow flawed or inadequate. Understanding the roots of this challenge and learning strategies to overcome it are …
Avoiding the Entire Truth: How Adult Children of Alcoholics Cope with Dishonesty
Adult children of alcoholics often face a complex relationship with honesty, shaped by their experiences growing up in dysfunctional families. The coping mechanisms they develop in childhood, including lying and stretching the truth, can persist into adulthood, affecting their relationships and emotional well-being. Recognizing this struggle is the first step towards healing …
